Welcome, Mama! You belong here.
Are you ready to reconnect with the woman you are outside of motherhood?
Do you long to create an intentional life you love?
are you ready to overcome the roadblocks that have held you back from pursuing your dreams?
I am so glad you are here because it shows me you're ready to make big changes in your life!
As moms, it's easy to feel guilty about pursuing our dreams and desires (mom guilt is real!). But from experience let me tell you - it's the best thing you can do for yourself and your family.
So if you don't know where to start, or maybe you're not even sure what your dreams are anymore...
You're in the right place!
My name is Clarissa Mance and I'm a life coach for overwhelmed moms who are longing to reconnect with who they are outside of motherhood and create an intentional life they love.
However, this wasn't always my story. Several years ago after the birth of my second born, I completely lost my identity in motherhood. I wasn't sure who I was anymore. Everything I did, said, watched, etc. filtered through what I call my, "mom filter" - "What would my kids think?" "What would my kids say?" "Would I say that if my kids were around?"
I had disconnected from everything that made me, uniquely me. I was trying to fit into this mold I had created of who I thought I should be as a mom, and who I should be around my kids.
And because it wasn't authentically me, it started to breed a lot of resentment. I not only resented my life, I started to resent my kids.
I spent a lot of time thinking about this woman I would be in another life. I envisioned how amazing my life would be if only I was her and had her life.
Feeling at a loss I reached out to a life coach for some guidance. When I shared my struggle she said, "And why can't you be her now?" My first response was, "Because she's this amazing, beautiful woman living in the city, and I'm stuck in the suburbs with dried spit up on my shirt!"
But her question stuck with me, and one day as I was journaling about this woman yet again, it hit me. I could infuse the essence of that life into my life right now! And that is the moment that really kick-started my transformation journey.
Today I can honestly say - I love who I am. I love my life. I spend more time thriving in motherhood than despising it. I'm truly creating a life I love.